How do you create a community where everyone is taken care of and feels cared for?
Prime people to take care of one another.
Call the charge out explicitly. Nudge people into relationships of care. Model ways people might go about taking care of each other in different contexts. Set the expectation.
When sharing a meal with a group, if people are invited to serve themselves, it’s quite possible that the food will be gone before everyone has a chance to grab a plate.
However, if people are invited to serve one another and not themselves, no one goes hungry. There is always enough to go around as people take care of each other and ensure everyone is nourished.